Fall 2026 Black Joy: The GBAN Newsletter

October 2026 Newsletter

Letter from the co-chairs

It’s hard to believe that a year has passed since we hosted Black Alumni Weekend at Grinnell. This was the first of its gathering in over 10 years and it was an incredible opportunity for us to reflect on our individual and collective relationship with an institution that has shaped us in so many incredible ways. Thank you all for showing up and for standing with us as we began the methodical work required to establish the organization’s infrastructure, build relationships, and establish a foundation for long-term sustainability. Our work has always been guided by the belief that creating a strong, sustainable network is essential to ensuring that GBAN continues to connect Black alumni and support current students.

Approximately two and a half years ago, when we stepped into the co-chair roles, we were excited by the opportunity to contribute to a community that means so much to us. At the time, we were not entirely sure how long we would serve, but we knew we wanted to help GBAN grow, strengthen its foundation, and build momentum for the future. Since then, we have learned a great deal, forged meaningful connections, and had the privilege of working alongside alumni and members of the Grinnell community who share our commitment to this work. Along with our incredible leadership team, we’ve done work and launched initiatives that we are truly proud of but we know that our work was just the beginning.

After much thought, we have both come to the conclusion that now is the right time for us to transition out of our roles as co-chairs. This decision comes with gratitude for the opportunity to serve, pride in the work we have accomplished together, and confidence in the importance of continuing to build a strong and sustainable GBAN.

With that being said, how do we keep it moving forward? The great news is that Kari and Jeffrey plan to stay in their roles for at least another year which will significantly assist with the transition. The work they have done and continue to do is extraordinary, so we are in good hands!

Leadership transitions are a natural part of an organization’s growth, and we see this moment as an opportunity for new energy, ideas, and leadership to help carry the network forward. As we look toward the next chapter of the Grinnell Black Alumni Network, we invite fellow alumni to consider how they might contribute to the continued growth and sustainability of GBAN.

We are seeking alumni interested in taking on leadership positions and operational roles that will help move GBAN’s work forward. These opportunities could include coordinating events and alumni engagement, supporting communications not only with the newsletter, but also with social media. There are not only virtual opportunities for support, but also on-campus opportunities for those who can easily get to Grinnell.

To help us reflect on our time journey thus far, co-create a plan for the future, and identify ways for you to get involved, we invite you to join us for a virtual Open House on Nov. 11 at 7:00 p.m. CST on Zoom. We sincerely hope that you will be able to join us and we look forward to finding ways to deepen your involvement with GBAN!

With gratitude,

Opeyemi Awe-Famolu (‘15), Noel Green (‘94)
Co-Chairs, Grinnell Black Alumni Network

Update on giving circle progress

In the June Newsletter, we introduced the GBAN Giving Circle, a collaborative initiative with the Office of Development and Alumni Relations aimed at deepening our collective impact and building a sustainable culture of Black philanthropy at Grinnell.

Collective investment has always existed within our community. Many Black alumni have consistently supported Grinnell and current students through mentorship, advocacy, volunteerism, and financial contributions. Rather than relying on individual gifts alone, members of the giving circle pool contributions to create a larger, more meaningful collective impact. The GBAN Giving Circle is not simply a philanthropic initiative; it is a continuation of a tradition that has always defined the Black Grinnellian experience: making a way for one another.

In August, we did a soft launch of the Giving Circle and have been floored by the response. We have raised nearly $8,000 from just a small group of alumni. Imagine what is possible now as we open the Giving Circle up with the wider community, we hope that you will consider making a donation.

Funds from the Giving Circle can be used to support student internships, programming at the Black Cultural Center (BCC), or to facilitate student research. The hope is that these funds will be dynamic enough to respond to the changing needs of our students.

The GBAN Giving Circle is alumni-led and alumni-funded. When we pool our gifts, we become something no single donor can be — a permanent, community-owned resource that tells students on that campus: we are invested in their success.

$500 makes you a Founding Member. Monthly giving starts at $42. Founding Members will be able to vote to direct how funds are used. All donations, no matter the amount, will contribute to funding the Giving Circle. Our overall goal is to raise at least $50,000 by June 30, 2027. Will you join me in making a donation to the GBAN Giving Circle?

Here’s the link to give. We truly hope that you will partner with us to help pay it forward for the next generation of Grinnellians.

Student Spotlight

Name: Phoenix Obiri Yeboah
Class Year: 2029
Home Town: Burnsville, MN
Intended Major: Political Science

Phoenix Obiri Yeboah, a rising second-year student from Burnsville, MN is wholeheartedly embracing the many opportunities that define a Grinnell education.

During her first year, Phoenix participated in Grinnell’s Peer Connection Pre-Orientation Program (PCPOP), a year-long initiative designed for first-year students who identify with or bring perspectives from historically marginalized identities and backgrounds. One of the most meaningful aspects of the program was being paired with a peer mentor. “You have someone checking in with you to make sure you’re adjusting okay,” Phoenix said. This year, Phoenix returned to PCPOP as a peer mentor, helping a new cohort of students navigate the transition to life at Grinnell College. At the end PCPOP holds a “Paper Plate” awards ceremony celebrating what makes each student unique. “Everyone who meets me knows my favorite color is pink. The color pink is like my armor. My whole dorm room is pink, water bottle, I wear it practically every day…My paper plate awards from last year when I was a mentee and this year as a mentor both mention pink.”

Phoenix also served as a first-year representative for the Black Student Union and quickly became involved in a variety of campus affinity groups. Among her favorite experiences were Black Joy Month (Grinnell’s unique approach to Black History Month) celebrations and community-building study breaks. “Last winter we had an event at the BCC (Connie Kimbo Black Cultural Center) where GBAN brought us a bunch of lotions and self-care items for the winter,” she recalled. “That was really fun.”

Another highlight was a hair care workshop hosted by the African Caribbean Student Union (ACSU), where students explored different hair care techniques and products. Phoenix has also been active in Grinnell’s First-Generation/Low-Income (FGLI) community, particularly appreciating the addition of a dedicated lounge space. “It’s really nice to have a place to connect with students, staff, and faculty with similar backgrounds,” she said.

Last spring, Phoenix completed a Grinnell Global Learning Program course on new and emerging infectious diseases. Through the course, students examined the geopolitical and social impacts of disease outbreaks and explored issues related to public health, climate change, and zoonotic disease transmission. As part of the experience, Phoenix traveled to South Africa and Alaska, gaining firsthand insight into how environmental and social factors influence the spread of disease.

She has also moved from the residence halls into Sawubona House, a college-owned affinity-based project house located at 1318 East Street, where she lives with four other Black students.

Academically, Phoenix is looking forward to courses in political science, introductory sociology, and Grinnell’s Alternative Language Study Option (ALSO). “I’m going to learn Twi,” she said. “My parents are from Ghana, and I never got to learn it when I was younger.”

Phoenix’s journey at Grinnell demonstrates how meaningful mentorship can shape a student’s college experience. As Phoenix discussed, having a mentor who checks in, offers guidance, and provides support can make navigating the transition to college easier. Her experience as both a mentee and a peer mentor highlights how mentorship is not only an opportunity to receive support but also to give back by helping others find their place in the Grinnell community. Connections while supporting one another’s personal, academic, and professional growth. Stories like Phoenix’s remind us why mentorship matters and why we need more alumni and students to get involved in MentorGrinnell. By signing up as a mentor, you can help another Grinnellian navigate their journey, discover new opportunities, and feel supported along the way. Join MentorGrinnell today and help make mentorship a lasting part of the Grinnell experience.

Committee Updates

Alumni Engagement
Be In The Know
GBAN Open House Nov. 11 at 7:00 p.m. CST on Zoom. Come for community and to find out what’s next for Grinnell’s Black Alumni Network.

Care Package Project
Since 2014, the annual Care Package Project has provided care packages to every Grinnell student on campus in February. Every student. Packages are put together by alumni, as individuals and in groups, and are shipped and delivered to Grinnell for distribution over a few days in late February. For 2027, GBAN is leading an effort to have Black alumni provide care packages tailored to the needs and interests of Black students. What items were hard or impossible to find in Grinnell? We can band together to provide some of these items to current students. More information will be emailed to you, but if you are interested in participating, please email Jeffrey Fields.

Student Connections
Mentoring
Grinnell Black Alumni Network’s (GBAN) Student Connections committee strives to facilitate relationships between Black alumni and Black students, empowering current students through their Grinnell journey. One way we do this is through mentorship. Mentor Grinnell provides a format for Black students and alumni to connect one on one and explore topics such as academics, belonging, and careers.
Sign up for MentorGrinnell with GBAN!

Campus Spotlight: Programming at the Black Cultural Center

Curious about what current students are excited about as they enter a new academic year? Watch this video to find out!

Garden: Black Womxn’s Group
Garden continues to grow as one of the BCC’s most meaningful spaces on campus. Centered on Black women, femmes, and non-binary people, Garden offers a place of rest and reflection for dreamers, creatives, storytellers, healers, and organizers committed to liberation. The group especially uplifts the experiences of trans, queer, disabled, and low-income women, and also welcomes Black nonbinary and gender-nonconforming community members who feel drawn to the space. Over lunch, students lead conversations on community, holistic living, radical self-care, and healing.The group’s work is a powerful reminder of the care Black students continue to build for one another at Grinnell.

M.C.E.E. (Men of Color, Empowered & Engaged)
Also hosted at the BCC, Men of Color, Empowered & Engaged (MCEE) brings together Men of Color, Empowered & Engaged (MCEE.) supports male-identifying students, staff, and faculty of the Black and African diaspora as they recognize and develop their voices, individually and collectively. Gathering over a shared meal, MCEE makes room for Black masculinity to be expressed through joy, rest, healing, support, learning, and honest reflection, all with the goal of strengthening both its members and their communities. For alumni, it’s an encouraging look at the intergenerational mentorship and brotherhood taking shape on campus today.

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Cooking with Conney is an opportunity to build community over a shared meal at the BCC facilitated by members of Grinnell’s Black faculty, staff, and community stakeholders.

 

Black &_______
Each semester, Grinnell’s Intercultural Affairs hosts a Black &______ Young Alumni Speakers Series. Black &___ Series is a space to explore the various intersections of identities within and around Blackness. Young alumni return to campus and share their stories and experiences of identity development and exploration at Grinnell and beyond. We are looking for a speaker for April 8-9, 2027, if you are interested please email Sarah Smith-Benanti, smithben@grinnell.edu.

BlackSymposium (February 19-20, 2027) DAR, GBAN and the Office of Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion are creating a new program for 4-5 Black alumni to return to campus annually during Black History Month to discuss their career path and network with students. The Black Symposium explores the power of a liberal arts education through the experiences of Black alumni and professionals whose careers have followed unexpected, non-linear paths. Bringing together voices from the social sciences, humanities, STEM fields, and entrepreneurship, the symposium highlights how diverse academic experiences, from economics and film studies to systems thinking and community engagement, shape meaningful careers and lives. Rather than focusing solely on immediate opportunities, the event provides context, mentorship, and insight into navigating complex social systems, building networks, and pursuing work that is both personally fulfilling and impactful. Through conversations with alumni, students will gain a deeper understanding of what they can take from their Grinnell experience and how their education can prepare them for opportunities they may not yet imagine. If you are interested in being a part of the symposium, please email Sarah Smith-Benanti, smithben@grinnell.edu.

Student Organization Facts and Photos

Grinnellians attending Black Student Union x Habesha Student Organization x African Caribbean Students Union first general body meeting:

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The Habesha Student Organization (HSO) is a student-led group at Grinnell College dedicated to celebrating and promoting Ethiopian and Eritrean cultures. HSO provides a welcoming space for students of all backgrounds to explore Habesha traditions, including food, music, language, and history. Through cultural events, social gatherings, and educational programming, the organization fosters community, cultural pride, and cross-cultural understanding on campus. HSO also serves as a support network for students of Habesha descent while encouraging broader engagement with the diverse experiences of the Habesha diaspora.

The Black Student Union (BSU) at Grinnell College is dedicated to centering and supporting Black student life while fostering a more inclusive and connected campus community. BSU creates spaces for cultural expression, dialogue, and advocacy, uplifting the diverse experiences and voices within the Grinnell community. Through programming, collaboration, and campus engagement, BSU invites all students to learn, build relationships, and participate in meaningful conversations about identity, equity, and belonging. The organization works to strengthen community, promote cross-cultural understanding, and advocate for the needs and well-being of students at Grinnell.

The African Caribbean Students Union (ACSU) serves as a student-led organization providing representation and a sense of community for students who identify as members of the African diaspora. This is facilitated through events, workshops, meetings, and overall presence on campus. The organization works closely in collaboration with the Black Students Union and the Black Cultural Center.

Upcoming events

Be In The Know: GBAN Open House Nov. 11 at 7:00 p.m. CST on Zoom. Come for community and to find out what’s next for Grinnell’s Black Alumni Network. Registration is open.

Public History Collective Post-Baccalaureate Fellow: Valeriya Woodard ‘25, the inaugural fellow, will be coming to a city near you this fall! In her work, Valeriya is expanding the accessibility, knowledge, and breadth of Black history and legacy at Grinnell by conducting oral history interviews with alumni. If you are interested in being interviewed, please reach out to her via email: woodardva@grinnell.edu

 

Fall 2026 Rainbow Connection Newsletter

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Grinnell Rainbow Connection
Fall 2026
Veritas et Arcus Iris

A Note from Rainbow Alumni Leadership:

Happy LGBTQIA+ History Month!

October marks the start of LGBTQIA+ History Month, and this year I am celebrating the people, communities, and movements that have helped shape our history. We hope you celebrate with us this month at one of our upcoming events: National Coming Out Day Virtual Storytelling Event on Sunday, October 11th (RSVP here!) and our Annual Ren-Gay-Vous events happening across the country.

I’d also like to invite you all to join our Steering Committee. We’re searching for volunteers who are willing to lend their voice and ideas for an hour or two each month. Committees include fundraising, networking & storytelling, and communications. We’d love to have your help in shaping what comes next for the Grinnell Rainbow Alumni!

If you’re interested in attending or getting involved, please feel free to reach out to me directly at carlyjerome@gmail.com or to Sarah Smith-Benanti at smithben@grinnell.edu.

I hope to see you at one of our upcoming events and at our next steering committee!

In solidarity,

Carly Jerome ’11 (carlyjerome@gmail.com)
Chair, Grinnell Rainbow Alumni

On behalf of the entire Steering Committee

Ren-Gay-Vous Have Returned for LGBTQIA+ History Month.

2025 Ren-Gay-Vous
2025 Ren-Gay Vous

Three years of Ren- Gay- Vous, and we’re still bringing the queer Grinnell magic! 🌈✨ Here’s to another year of LGBTQ+ alumni, good vibes, great memories, and finding our people.

Join us in the Twin Cities on Oct. 7, Newton, IA on Oct. 10, Chicago on Oct. 15, Seattle on Oct. 24, or DC on Oct. 25.

If you are interested in hosting one next year, please reach out to Sarah Smith-Benanti at smithben@grinnell.edu.

Upcoming Event:

National Coming Out Day virtual storytelling evening, hosted by Javon Garcia ‘14 and Morell Old ‘22.
Register Here!

Save the Date:

QPOC would like to extend the invitation to the 20th Anniversary Drag Show on Saturday, November 21st, to the entire Rainbow Alumni Network. We want to ensure alumni are aware as early as possible to account for travel. We would be so grateful to have alumni there.

Multicultural Reunion will return to Grinnell College in mid-November 2027. We will share the theme and keep you posted as programming comes together.

Campus Updates:

The Stonewall Resource Center is celebrating LGBTQIA+ History Month with Wear Your Pride Days, based on the Gilbert Baker Pride Flag. Below is a graphic showing the days to wear each color along with the meaning of the original pride flag color stripes. On the following days in October wear: first = Hot Pink: Sex, second = Red: Life, fifth = Orange: Healing, ninth = Yellow: Sunlight, twelfth = Green: Nature, sixteenth = Teal: Magic / Art, twenty-sixth = Indigo: Harmony, and thirtieth = Violet: Spirit

LGBTQ History Month Wear Your Pride Days colors and themes

Big Gay BBQ Returns For Second Year

The 2nd annual Big Gay BBQ was held during welcome week. Student enjoyed hot dogs and watermelon while hanging out and playing yard games with each other and queer faculty and staff on the lawn outside of the Stonewall Resource Center (SRC)

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What You Can Do Right Now

Looking for ways to get involved with Rainbow Alumni and help Grinnell? Here are a few suggestions:

  • Forward this email to a friend! Know someone who should get this newsletter and join the Rainbow Alumni? Forward it to them to help us spread the word.
  • Volunteer! Have some fun and make new friends with Grinnellians from across the decades! Take the volunteer survey here. Committees looking for participants include Networking and Storytelling; Communications; and Fundraising.
  • Donate to support students! We have three endowed funds to grow. Use the pull-down menu to select the fund of your choice.
  • Come to our next event. National Coming Out Day virtual storytelling on October 11.
  • Sign up to be a mentor. MentorGrinnell LGBTQIA+ Community registration.
  • Build community. Join the conversation on Discord.
  • Check out our LinkedIn page: https://www.linkedin.com/groups/14483590/
  • Did a friend forward this email to you? Sign up as a member of the Grinnell Rainbow Alumni by submitting your email address here.

LGBTQ History Month Events Calendar for Grinnell College

 

Spring 2026 ADA Newsletter

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Virtual Bingo Night

The Alumni Disability Alliance will be hosting its second virtual event on July 15th, 2026 at 7:00 p.m. CDT. This event is open to everyone and will be a night of storytelling, fun, and community building. There will be prizes!

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We hope to see you there!

Discord: Launching an Online Community

The Alumni Disability Alliance is proud to announce the creation of the ADA Discord. Here, members can have casual conversations, discuss current events, pets, favorite fidgets, and more! This is still a new space and therefore ever evolving!

Click here to join the ADA Discord!

Senior Spotlight:

In this edition of the ADA newsletter, we are thrilled to spotlight a few of our graduating seniors, who graciously shared reflections on their time at Grinnell. We wish them the absolute best as they step into the post-graduate world, and we are excited to officially welcome them into our alumni community!

Bella Nesbeth

Alyx Allred

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Reunion 2026 Recap!

For the 146th Alumni Reunion from May 28-31 Grinnell College hosted 1,456 Grinnellians. For the Alumni Disability Alliance the signature event of the weekend was the open house in the Disability Cultural Center located in Steiner Hall. Furthermore, new this year was the accessibility table both at Block Party and the All Reunion dinner allowed alumni to order at the table and have a runner go and get their food in order to avoid the long lines.

Please enjoy the photo collage from the weekend. Photos courtesy of the Grinnell College Office of Development and Alumni Relations and the Grinnell College Office of Communications.

Collage of various ADA members participating in Reunion 2025 activities

July is Disability Pride!

For Disability Pride in July 2026 we are launching a social media campaign showcasing the diversity of the disability alumni community and bringing awareness to it. This means that we are looking for alumni to spotlight! If you are interested in being spotlighted please contact Sarah Smith-Benanti at smithben@grinnell.edu.

Science Spotlight:

Our Science Spotlight features emerging research and innovations that contribute to a broader understanding of disability, neurodiversity, chronic illness, and human health.

This month’s highlight explores a recent paper that examines ADHD through the lens of circadian rhythm disruption, looking at how differences in the body’s internal clock and sleep patterns may play an important role in ADHD. The body’s circadian rhythm helps regulate sleep, alertness, energy levels, and hormones throughout the day. In many people with ADHD, this internal clock may run later than usual, causing melatonin (the hormone that helps signal sleep) to be released later at night. As a result, energy, motivation, and focus may peak later in the evening, which can leave people feeling most alert at times when they are expected to be winding down for sleep.

The paper also discusses the potential of chronotherapy, an approach that aligns interventions with the body’s naturally occurring circadian rhythms, as a way to support symptom management and daily functioning. The paper discusses several strategies that may help reinforce healthier and more consistent sleep patterns, including the use of bright light lamps in the morning, limiting light exposure at night, and maintaining a more consistent sleep schedule. It also highlights the importance of timing, noting that small doses of melatonin taken earlier in the evening may help gradually shift the body’s internal clock earlier. Rather than making drastic schedule changes, the paper suggests that slowly adjusting sleep and wake times in small increments will help create more sustainable long term changes.

ADHD as a circadian rhythm disorder: evidence and implications for chronotherapy

Sports Spotlight:

The 2026 Special Olympics USA Games were held in Minneapolis and the Twin Cities in Minnesota! From June 20-26, more than 3,000 athletes from all 50 states competed in 16 different sports. Special Olympics athletes made a big splash in events like swimming, basketball, bowling, bocce, and track & field. This year cornhole and pickleball made their official USA Games debut. The addition of these sports reflects a growing focus on inclusive sport design, creating opportunities for athletes with different support needs, mobility levels, and athletic backgrounds to compete side by side.

Adaptive Technology in the Winter Paralympics: Innovation on Ice and Snow

Iowan Kevin McKee won his 4th gold medal this month in the paralympics

Summer 2026 Rainbow Connection Newsletter

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Grinnell Rainbow Connection
Summer 2026
Veritas et Arcus Iris

A Note from Rainbow Alumni Leadership:

As many of you know, the first Pride was a riot: The Stonewall Riots. The first Pride Month was held to commemorate the riots’ first anniversary. People gathered with the community to ensure the plight of those before was not forgotten. Today, Pride continues that legacy through activism, community celebrations, and being together.

We kicked off Pride month at the most recent Grinnell Reunion with a celebration of the Stonewall Resource Center’s 40th Anniversary. Later that night, we celebrated with the Grinnell Alumni Drag Show, Scarlet and Slay – an amazing gathering of alumni giving it their all. Tips from the night went to the newly formed Rainbow Alumni Endowed Stonewall Center fund, which ensures the continuation of SRC-sponsored celebrations, campus programming, and emergency needs for years to come.

As Pride Month continues, I hope you’ll join fellow Grinnellians at local Summer Picnics and, later this fall, at Ren-Gay-Vous, Grinnell Rainbow Alumni’s annual regional gatherings. These events offer opportunities to celebrate our community, strengthen connections, and continue the spirit of Pride together.

In solidarity,

Carly Jerome ’11 (carlyjerome@gmail.com)
Chair, Grinnell Rainbow Alumni

On behalf of the entire Steering Committee

Reunion Recap:

For the 146th Alumni Reunion from May 28-31 Grinnell College hosted 1,456 Grinnellians. For the Grinnell Rainbow Alumni the two signature events of the weekend were the celebration of the 40th anniversary of the Stonewall Resource Center and the Alumni Drag Show, Scarlet & Slay. We are closing out the Drag Show fundraising effort with a new video from Dame Cherry Tart and hope to hit our goal of raising $125,000 for the SRC. Please give what you can by midnight on June 30.

Please enjoy the photo collage from the weekend. Photos courtesy of the Grinnell College Office of Development and Alumni Relations and the Grinnell College Office of Communications.

Reunion 2026 activities; drag show, people talking, Rainbow alumni swag

Ren-Gay-Vous Have Been Moved to October – Looking for Hosts:

This year the annual Ren-Gay-Vous have been moved from the summer of 2026 to October 2026 to celebrate LGBTQIA+ History Month! We are actively looking for event hosts. If you are interested please reach out to Sarah Smith-Benanti at smithben@grinnell.edu.

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Your Part of Grinnellian History: Share Your Story!

This year, the Grinnell College Stonewall Resource Center SRC celebrates its 40th anniversary. For four decades the SRC has been a place for memories, milestones, and community. As we mark its 40th anniversary, we are working to compile a collection of stories, from both before and after the creation of the SRC, that showcase the LGBTQIA+ life on campus.

Interested in sharing your story, no contribution is too small—before the students return in the fall we are looking to collect alumni bios to display in the SRC. We are looking for alumni to fill out the first page of the survey (and more if you are interested!) so students can learn about the LGBTQIA+ history at Grinnell.

Fill out this survey so students can learn about the queer legacy at Grinnell.

Member Spotlight: Josh Blue ’01

Can you tell us a bit about yourself and your time at Grinnell College? What was your year and major?
I’m Josh Blue, Class of 2001. I majored in History and did all of my elementary education coursework to complete my 9th semester teaching practicum. When I was a student, there was an elementary education programme which enabled you to get your teaching credentials alongside your degree. I actually ended up doing my 9th semester a year later because I was a Grinnell-Nanjing teaching fellow and spent the year after I graduated teaching at a middle school affiliated with Nanjing University.

This experience was transformative and ultimately set me on my path in international education and living abroad. I’ve been living and working in Hong Kong since January 2003.

I was involved in theater as often as I could be while a student. I worked at the library and during new student days I was hypnotised and performed ‘Livin’ La Vida Loca’ in front of everyone at the Harris Center. Up until I graduated, I was sometimes referred to as ‘the Ricky Martin Guy’.

How do you identify now? Were you out during your time at Grinnell?
I identify as a gay man. While at Grinnell I was not really part of the LGBTQIA+ student group and I never went to the Stonewall Resource Center. I didn’t really know who I was when I started and spent two years going in and out of the closet, a third year becoming more comfortable with who I was and then I came out to my family right before graduation.

How would you describe your professional life so far? What do you do for a living?
I have had a very fortunate professional life to date. I did end up in education and haven’t regretted any of it. I started off working for an education not for profit in Hong Kong, and worked my way into the international school sector. I’ve been a classroom teacher, a curriculum coordinator, a vice principal, a Head of Primary and a Principal all within primary or through-schools. I am currently the Head of Education-Curriculum, Learning and Assessment for the English Schools Foundation (ESF) here in Hong Kong. I get to work with our 22 schools–kindergartens, primary, secondary and one special school, supporting senior leaders, teachers and staff.

Additionally, I’ve been in IB schools since 2004 and since 2011 I’ve been a workshop leader, evaluation leader and consultant for the IB. This has enabled me to travel extensively across the Asia-Pacific region facilitating workshops and evaluating schools. It has been an incredible opportunity.

I get the greatest joy from working with students and the next greatest joy from training and inspiring teachers and leaders to be the best they can be for their students.

Have you volunteered with any LGBTQIA+ groups since graduation?
My partner and I have a son and when we had him we attended several Rainbow Family events in Hong Kong. We made some great friends and connections early on. I sat on a panel one year on alternative families as part of the pride events scheduled across the city. I’ve been interviewed by a law firm, sharing my family’s story of how we became a family.

What was the overall atmosphere like at Grinnell while you were there? Were you involved in any campus groups at the time?
Grinnell just felt like home. Having been back recently, as soon as I stepped on campus a calm and peace came over me. It’s such a special place. I was involved in everything and anything. I liked to be active and engaged so from campus groups to theater to community service in town or Des Moines, I was always happy to get involved and do something. I read the news one semester on Friday evening in KDIC and I wrote an op ed piece in the paper called the ‘Eclectic Edge’.

Did you use the Stonewall Resource Center at all when you were a student? If so, do you have any particular memories associated with it?
I did not however I will always remember my first encounter with the SRC. Freshman year I was in a double that had been converted into a triple on Younker Second North. We had the last room closest to North Campus and next to us was another converted double with three women. One of them, who has since transitioned and is living their authentic life, asked me the day we moved in if I wanted to go to the SRC with them. I remember saying to them ‘OH! Why? Do you need directions? I can take you there.’ And they looked at me with a weird expression and said, ‘Oh, uh no, I know where it is I just thought…well..maybe….it’s ok….if you ever want to go, let me know and I’ll come with you.’

They knew before I did.

How visible were LGBTQIA+ students and employees on campus when you were an undergraduate? What do you remember about that?
There was definite visibility but not overly so. I remember when I told a high school friend I was going to Grinnell, she asked me if I was gay. I was surprised and she just said, ‘well my dad says there are a lot of gay people there.’ I don’t remember a lot or maybe I don’t remember a high number of gay men…Women, however, heaps.

Are there any books or movies that were especially important for your personal coming out journey?
The Object of My Affection with Paul Rudd and Jennifer Aniston was probably the one that sealed the deal for me. When I really started to figure out who I was my sophomore year, I was working in the library and I ended up ordering heaps of books from gay history to young adult LGBT novels to works by Edmund White—I felt like I had had up to that point a very hetero-centric point of reference and I felt like if I really was gay, I’d take the academic approach and read up and build my body of knowledge. It definitely helped and apparently I still do this because I just read all six books in the Heated Rivalry series and I learned heaps….

Do you have any particular memories associated with any LGBTQIA+ Reunion activities, particularly drag show?

I just attended my 25th reunion and ended up co-emceeing the Scarlet and Slay Alumni Drag Show. I had a blast! It was so fun to connect with older and younger alumni and put on this incredible show. I do British Panto here in Hong Kong and brought over my most recent Dame character, Dame Cherry Tart. She was definitely well loved and loved up at Drag Show. It was an incredible experience.

Josh in drag; sculpted red wig and cheetah print dress                Josh in drag; red wig and ensemble

For me, it was really a full circle moment. I would have never been able to perform in a drag show while at Grinnell—it would have been way out of my comfort zone. And the only reason I was able to come back and perform in the drag show 25 years later is because of everything I experienced at Grinnell that helped make me who I am today. It was such a soul-filling experience,

I’m already thinking ahead to my next reunion in 2032!

Josh in drag; curly blue wig and 18th century ballgown Josh in drag; long purple wig and dress

 

What You Can Do Right Now

Looking for ways to get involved with Rainbow Alumni and help Grinnell? Here are a few suggestions:

  • Forward this email to a friend! Know someone who should get this newsletter and join the Rainbow Alumni? Forward it to them to help us spread the word.
  • Volunteer! Have some fun and make new friends with Grinnellians from across the decades! Take the volunteer survey here. Committees looking for participants include Networking and Storytelling; Events; Communications and Outreach; and Fundraising.
  • Donate to support students! We are currently focused on fully funding the Rainbow Alumni Stonewall Resource Center Endowed Fund. Use the pull-down menu to select the fund of your choice.
  • Come to our next event. Reconnect to Grinnellians in your area or online.
  • Sign up to be a mentor: Register for the LGBTQIA+ MentorGrinnell.

 

June 2026 Black Joy: The GBAN Newsletter

June  2026 GBAN Alumni Newsletter 

A Letter from the Co-Chairs: Building the Legacy We Deserve

Dear Black Grinnell Alumni Community,

As we celebrate Juneteenth this month, we are reminded that progress has always been powered by community. Juneteenth is not simply a commemoration of freedom delayed — it is a celebration of resilience, collective care, and the generations of Black people who invested in futures they themselves might never fully see. It reminds us that we are here because someone before us believed we were worth supporting.

Since the arrival of African American students at Grinnell College in 1879, Black students have shaped the fabric, history, and future of our institution in profound ways. Our presence has never been accidental, nor has our path always been easy. Across generations, Black Grinnellians have navigated challenges, insisted on belonging, pushed institutions forward, and achieved excellence — often because someone extended support, opened a door, offered guidance, or helped make the journey possible.

That spirit of collective investment has always existed within our community. Many Black alumni have consistently supported Grinnell and current students through mentorship, advocacy, volunteerism, and financial contributions. To those who have been giving for years: thank you. We do not take your generosity for granted. Your investment has mattered more than you may know.

In collaboration with the Office of Development and Alumni Relations, the Grinnell Black Alumni Network is proud to introduce the GBAN Giving Circle — a new opportunity to deepen our collective impact and build a sustainable culture of Black philanthropy at Grinnell.

A giving circle is a model rooted in community. Rather than relying on individual gifts alone, members pool contributions to create a larger, more meaningful collective impact. But a giving circle is about more than dollars — it is about shared vision, shared ownership, and shared responsibility. Members learn together, give together, and celebrate together.

For Black alumni of Grinnell, this is especially meaningful. The GBAN Giving Circle is not simply a philanthropic initiative; it is a continuation of a tradition that has always defined the Black Grinnellian experience: making a way for one another.

Our vision is simple but ambitious: to help ensure that every Black student who arrives at Grinnell feels supported, seen, and connected to a broader community invested in their success. We want to cultivate an enduring culture in which giving back — whether through mentorship, service, advocacy, or financial support — becomes an expected and joyful part of what it means to be a Black Grinnellian.

Every gift becomes part of something larger. It is a message to current students that says: You belong here. We see you. And you are not walking this journey alone.

As we celebrate Juneteenth and reflect on the communities that sustained us, we invite you to consider how you might pay it forward. In the coming months, GBAN leaders will begin reaching out to share more about the Giving Circle, answer questions, and hear your ideas. We formally look forward to launching this effort during National Black Philanthropy Month in August.

When you hear from us, we hope you will give us a chance to engage. Ask questions. Share feedback. Consider joining us in shaping what this next chapter of Black alumni giving can look like.

Because the truth is: Black alumni have never been better positioned than we are today to collectively invest in the students, leaders, and communities that will come after us.

We have cherished the opportunities to engage with you virtually and on campus since GBAN’s creation. The experiences have been meaningful, genuine and representative of GBAN goals.  We will continue to create ways in which to continue our positive momentum.  We can only do it with your support, so stay invested and stay tuned!

In community,

Opeyemi Awe (‘15), Noel Green (‘94)
Co-Chairs, Grinnell Black Alumni Network

Senior Profiles 

Avril (Avi) Thomas, St. Paul, Minnesota

Headshot of AviFirst-Year Tutorial: Element of Color: Theory and Practice with Matthew Kluber
Major(s), minor(s), concentration(s): Psychology and Studio Art
Grinnell Highlight: My highlight was being able to bring my childhood cat from home and also adopting a kitten during my second year from in town! Skittles is 12, and Momo is turning 3.

Lorraine Antwi, Ghana

Headshot of Lorraine blowing a kissFirst-Year Tutorial:It’s a Different World with Dr Stephanie Jones!
Major(s), minor(s), concentration(s): Biochemistry
Grinnell Highlight: Having the opportunity to serve on the Black Student Union cab for some time was such a good experience. From all the meetings we had as a cab to talking Jeneé’s ear off about the problems we had lol.

Jaxon Willoughby, Atlanta, Georgia

First-Year Tutorial:African-American Literary Ties to Russian Intellectual Thought with Raquel Greene
Major(s), minor(s), concentration(s): Double Major: Psychology and History
Grinnell Highlight: Captaining the Grinnell Men’s Soccer Team

Jaxson posing by a body of water      Jaxson playing soccer outside

 

People of Nia 

People of Nia Group Photo

On Friday, May 2, Black students, staff, faculty, parents, and alumni gathered in the Weingart Pavilion of Renfrow Hall to celebrate the class of 2026.  This year marks the third anniversary of the event, and the first year that the event was held at Renfrow Hall. 

Kierra Powell ’26, Yaleigh Harris ’26 and Cedric Hakeem ’15 delivered remarks, exploring topics related to Black Joy, resilience, and freedom.  As always, Black Student Specialist, Jeneé Spencer concluded the celebration with her signature Sawubona Affirmation:

You are significant.
You come from significant people,
Who have done significant things,
And you are significant as well.
You were significant before you got here, and you will be significant long after you leave.
We see you.
We see the work you are doing.
We see what you’re building.
We see how you’re investing in yourself and others,
And we are so honored to walk alongside of you.
So if you need something, say something.  

Supporting Our New Alumni

It’s no secret that the class of 2026 graduates are entering this next chapter facing challenges ranging from artificial intelligence, reduced federal aid for graduate programs, rising costs, and global uncertainty.  We can support the newest members of Grinnell’s Black Alumni Network by:

  • Extending and accepting invitations to connect via email or professional platforms such as LinkedIn.
  • Extending and accepting invitations to meet for coffee, in person or remotely.
  • Offering mentorship to guide them in their career paths.
  • Introducing new alumni to people in our personal and professional networks.
  • Sharing job leads and resources for job searching.
  • Providing emotional support and encouragement during their transition to “real life.”

Finals Week Care Packages 

Since GBAN’s inception, we have dedicated a portion of our funds to purchase care packages and “Finals Week Fire-Ups” for Black Students. Thank you, to all of the alumni who wrote notes of encouragement and support. 

Care package Students posing with care packages Care packages being handed out Students gathered in a kitchen

Alumni Engagement

Kudos | Kari Bassett ‘98 receives Lori Ann Schwab ‘95 Award, inaugural Office of Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion Ambassador Award.

In April, Kari Bassett and the Iowa Black History Research Collective received one of four Lori Ann Schwab ‘95 Alumni Grants.  The Schwab grant honors Lori Ann Schwab ’95, who passed away during her semester abroad. To honor her legacy, Lori’s family and the College created a grant to fund projects that Lori would have supported. Kari will be using the funds to purchase nearly 300 diverse books to be given away at community events over the course of the next year.

Boxes of books from Kari Kari talking with children

Nino Parker ’07 received the ODEI Ambassador Award. This award recognizes individuals whose consistent, care-centered, and often unseen efforts sustain belonging, build relationships, and move equity forward without reliance on formal authority.

Nino Parker accepting the DEI Ambassador Award

  • Upcoming Events 
  1. Let’s celebrate Juneteenth with an evening of storytelling through bingo on June 17 at 7:00 p.m. CDT. Register now.
  2. August 2026 – National Black Philanthropy Month | Formal Launch of Giving Circles 
  3. Holding Space: save Wednesday September 23rd. Holding Space is a time to connect informally with Black Grinnellians. We will discuss forming a team, so we can to build Black themed care packages for the Alumni Care Package project to be distributed in February.

Spring 2026 Rainbow Connection Newsletter

Veritas et Arcus Iris

A Note from Rainbow Alumni Leadership:

For quite a while now, the news has been disheartening to say the least, with headlines that seem to carry a constant weight. Between social media that has us doomscrolling and a 24-hour news cycle that we can never truly turn off, it can feel overwhelming to take in day after day after day. In times like this, it becomes easy to feel isolated and discouraged. Yet, it’s precisely during moments like this that community matters most. Turning toward one another, whether through small conversations, shared meals, or collective action, reminds us that we are not alone. Community doesn’t erase the difficulties, but it softens its edges, offering support, perspective, and even moments of lightheartedness that break through the heaviest of days.

Resistance comes in many forms, and one of my favorites is joy. It’s about choosing to nurture joy despite everything. It’s found in laughter that feels a little rebellious, in creativity that refuses to be stifled, and in the intentional act of caring when it might feel easier to shut down. Joy becomes a form of resilience, proving that even amid all the atrocities, they can never take away our happiness.

This year, I’ve found joy in my day-to-day life with my cats, my family, my friends: my community. I’ve seen it at our Grinnell Rainbow Alumni events – whether it’s BINGO or at a Ren-Gay-Vous. I’ve even experienced it at Grinnell’s reunion. It is my hope – my wish – that you are also able to see and experience the joy around you. That you’re able to join the GRA’s next event – either in person or online – and share in a sense of community and joy. Together, may we continue to find, create, and carry that joy forward with one another.

In solidarity,

Carly Jerome ’11 (carlyjerome@gmail.com)
Chair, Grinnell Rainbow Alumni

On behalf of the entire Steering Committee


Scarlet and Give Back Day: Help us reach the “Magic Angle”

As any good Grinnellian knows, a rainbow isn’t a physical object you can grab—it’s an optical phenomenon that requires exactly the right conditions. To see a rainbow, light is refracted at an angle of 42 degrees from the antisolar point for the primary rainbow. This angle is crucial for the light to emerge from the water droplets and form the rainbow arc. To keep the SRC shining for future students, we need a little bit of “refraction”.

In order to unlock the leadership match of $4,740 we need 50 magical donors. Reaching our $50,000 goal this year will move the SRC Fund from “annual hope” to “endowed certainty.” A gift of any size will help with that goal! Fortunately for you, the Office of Development and Alumni Relations Staff love to see gifts of funny numbers, so whether that is $4.15, $20.26, $50.75, or really any amount will help us reach our goal!

Currently, we are sitting at: 16 donors and $4,971


Reunion 2026: Come Join the Fun!!

Black and white squirrel sitting on a stone wall, holding a brick and wearing a rainbow kerchiefReunion 2026 registration has opened and is in full swing! Thanks to a generous gift from the GRA leadership, we will have a celebration commemorating 40 years of the SRC at Grinnell College. We will have awesome swag that has a special commemorative logo designed by Mitch Avitt ’10! In addition to the usual Reunion festivities, we hope to see you at the Grinnell Rainbow Alumni (GRA) reception and at the (now annual!) drag show! This year’s theme is Scarlet and Slay!

Register for the 2026 Reunion here and see who is coming here!


Reunion Drag Show 

Scarlet and Slay graphic

Are you interested in either volunteering or performing in the 2026 Reunion drag show? Please contact Sarah Smith-Benanti at smithben@grinnell.edu to sign up.


Your Part of Grinnellian History: Share Your Story!

This year, the Grinnell College Stonewall Resource Center SRC celebrates its 40th anniversary. For four decades the SRC has been a place for memories, milestones, and community. As we mark its 40th anniversary, we are working to compile a collection of stories, from both before and after the creation of the SRC, that showcase the LGBTQIA+ life on campus.

Interested in sharing your story, no contribution is too small—whether it’s a single name, a memory, or a box of materials, each piece helps us build a more complete and inclusive record of Grinnell’s past. Help us preserve this history by sharing yours.

Fill out this survey so students can learn about the queer legacy at Grinnell.


Philanthropy Through Remembering a Classmate: Nick Marzano ’76

Nick Marzano ’76 sitting in a chair, holding a drinkAs the class of 1976 celebrates their 50th Reunion, Tammi Nyman Lasky and Sue Hyatt have undertaken the effort to remember their classmate, Nick Marzano. A resident of Read Hall (1972-73) and a 1976 Grinnell graduate, Nick passed away from AIDS in January, 1989. While effective antiviral therapies arrived a decade later, Nick unfortunately contracted the disease before there were any successful treatments. Nick was a vibrant personality and another fellow classmate, Judy Ranney ’76, was kind enough to share some photos of Nick. Nick was warm, friendly, and smart. He wrote poetry and completed a triple major that included math.

Nick’s friends are seeking to keep his spirit alive through supporting current Grinnell students who may be facing struggles similar to those that Nick experienced. In his memory, they invite you to consider a donation to the Grinnell College Rainbow Alumni Scholarship Fund to support LGBTQIA+ students.

For questions don’t hesitate to reach out to Susan Hyatt (suhyatt@iu.edu) or Tammi Lasky (tlasky655@gmail.com).


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Are you interested in publicizing your local LGBTQIA+ event in your city? In each edition of the newsletter, we are going to be spotlighting events all over the country (or world). All you have to do is fill out this form with the event details.

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In addition to having a meet the member section, we are delighted to introduce a meet a member’s pet section! We love your furry, scaly, feathered, fluffy (or plant!) friends as much as you do and would love to showcase them in the newsletter! Please fill out this form to enter your pet (or plant)!

Are you interested in being interviewed for the Rainbow Connections Newsletter for our ‘member spotlight’ feature?

We are looking for members for our ‘meet our alumni’ feature! If you are interested in being interviewed please fill out this form!


Member Spotlight: Caito Scheer ’09, they/them

Can you tell us a bit about yourself and your time at Grinnell College? What was your year and Major?
I was a Theater and Dance major, class of 2009.

How do you identify now? Were you out during your time at Grinnell?
I identify as nonbinary and queer. There are other additional aspects of my sexuality or gender that I could list, but I feel like we (as a society) are still fairly limited in what language we have for the expansiveness of queerness, so sometimes I use certain other labels, but only either when I have the chance to explain the nuance/my personal definition of the term, or in certain contexts.

At Grinnell, I identified as lesbian, but I only knew a few other open nonbinary or trans folks. Even though each of them really blazed a trail (and I appreciate this, and each of them in general, so deeply) – since it was just a few, it was hard for me to connect the dots and see that this was something we shared. I am also hormonally intersex (I didn’t have that term back then), so it took me a while to understand any feelings of dysphoria or not feeling aligned with my assigned gender was related to my gender, and not just being intersex.

Luckily, at least the seeds were planted by the amazing queer community at Grinnell, as well as my cis, straight dude friends who were the kind of allies who always supported me, but also challenged me to self reflect when they perceived inconsistencies (… incon-cis-tencies?). Even though it took me years, these seeds – these questions, statements, discussions during my time at Grinnell – were all a foundation that allowed me to understand myself so much better once I was ready to really delve into that journey later on.

How would you describe your professional life so far? What do you do for a living?
Graduating at the beginning of the recession means my resume is… complicated. My longest recent career was as a Developer Advocate – the joke is that this is where every theater major who becomes a software engineer ends up. I was a software engineer for a while, then found myself giving talks internationally, and spending more time teaching and gathering developer and user feedback. All of these are some of the main components of a Developer Advocate (also called “devRel” for “developer relations”) and it felt like I was really made for that job.

However, among other challenges (i.e. tech leadership often have very different definitions of that role…), it also typically involves a lot of travel, which I loved, but in the end wasn’t sustainable while I was also going through some major life changes and now with the current political climate. I am now working in a marketing/content strategy role at a tech company – I still get to use a lot of my “devRel” skills there (and now getting to use those skills for fun outside of work as well), and I love my team and the work, and working fully remote has opened up a much happier and healthier lifestyle for me.

Have you volunteered with any LGBTQIA+ groups since graduation?
I do a lot of ad-hoc volunteering locally (and of course for the Grinnell reunion drag show). I had this notion that my involvement had to be “official” and measurable, but one thing I’ve learned while unlearning/unpacking a lot related to activism and mutual aid, is how much exists outside of what we think “counts” as volunteering/helping/making a difference. I do still want to get more regularly involved in certain orgs, but I’ve also been exploring and expanding my reach and capacity through smaller, direct mutual aid, teaming up and resource sharing with friend groups and smaller communities that form around specific local needs.

What was the overall atmosphere like at Grinnell while you were there? Were you involved in any campus groups at the time?
Tough question to answer! I’ll start by saying that I was involved in a lot of different activities. I am still utterly delighted, proud, and impressed at the number and variety of student-led organizations that existed when I was there (and that I was supported in creating, like the tango club).

It was honestly soul-fulfilling to be in a walkable community, where every lounge and corner there was something different going on – something that someone decided was worth their limited time to set up and gather around. It might be some people (and maybe some special brownies) relaxing at the Simpsons weekly binge night, or the very opinionated Star Trek Drinking Game Club (I still owe some of you some whiskey), or one of the sober groups doing creative game nights. It might be someone being vulnerable to a crowd for the first time at a poetry reading, or someone far from home teaching their hallmates how to cook their mother’s recipes. I remember being really excited to join the Campus Carnivores and Grinnell Vegan club. I love that I have friends who decided to attend all the religious groups that weren’t of the religion they grew up with. I loved making lifelong friends in town and exploring as much of Iowa as I could.

I loved that people cooked waffles and handed them out to you through windows late at night. I love that if you opened your window on Loose 2nd, on one side is a raucous party with jiggling jello shots and bone-shattering bass, and on the other side is a group of friends rivaling their volume, playing an all night game of Settlers of Catan.

I loved that there were dozens of activities I had no interest in, but that my friends could attend, benefit from, and come back and tell me all about it. I freaking. LOVED. BOBS. I loved that when I had hard days, when I felt alone or stressed out of my mind, there was always something – not something to fix it or make it go away, not always something that could help in the moment, but something that at least by the next day or so could make me remember that I’m not alone, and remember how much beauty there is around me, and in other people (yes I know it’s cheesy – I said what I said).

Did you use the Stonewall Resource Center at all when you were a student? If so, do you have any particular memories associated with it?
Most of my memories are indirect, but still meaningful. During my tour as a prospie, I was so nervous to ask my tour guide about the queer culture at Grinnell, but I did, and his answer made me feel so safe and supported (and even inspired me to become a tour guide once I joined Grinnell).

I was involved in, or attended and benefited from a lot of different events and activities – many of which were student-led, but received support or resources from the SRC. Some of my favorites were groups like LMNOP (Lesbian Movie Night and Organized Procrastination), and the annual pride parade, where for a the first year, me and my motorcycle were the entire d*kes on bikes section, and then it was me and a whole flock of decorated campus bikes, and then my junior year, unicycles joined, only to be upstaged my senior year with someone on a unicycle with a rat riding on their shoulder. Even though I’ve been in the d*kes on bikes (and other orgs) in pride parades in other/larger cities, Grinnell was still some of my favorite pride parade memories.

One of the biggest SRC impacts on me was also the most indirect – just knowing that it existed, and seeing how it supported my friends. I had multiple friends who came out in college – some of whom were dealing with significant barriers and family pressure, and I remember several of them telling me how going to the SRC helped them feel safe and that there wasn’t anything wrong with them – something that is absolutely essential for people first coming out, or really any queer college student trying to exist and thrive in the world today.

How visible were LGBTQ+ students and employees on campus when you were an undergraduate? What do you remember about that?
As I mentioned, we didn’t have a huge amount of representation for trans & nonbinary students or employees, but identifying as lesbian, gay or bi was very common amongst the students in the years I was there.

I knew several professors who were queer, but at least in my experience, most of them seemed reserved about it – I remember being grateful for the representation, but also wishing that some of them could be more ‘loud’ about it or open to talking about it (zero shade to any of them – I assume it wasn’t as accepted to do that as a professor at that time).

Now, coming back for reunion and seeing professors and staff actively a part of the drag shows and SRC and other campus groups has (I know this is going to sound cheesy, but I mean it) genuinely filled my heart and given me so much hope for these next generations of students. I also know that this has been extra hard to do in the last few years; it makes me want to do what I can to support these staff in their work, and I hope each of them knows what a difference they are making to so many students, and alumni.

Are there any books or movies that were especially important for your personal coming out journey?
I don’t actually have very many (except maybe: when I came out, my mom said she knew I was gay because when I was 5, I ran around the house quoting the Red Green Show “if the women don’t find me handsome, they’ll at least find me handy!” while carrying woodworking tools. … and cutting my own hair…).

But in my Grinnell years – watching But I’m A Cheerleader was an eye-opening experience. Not because of the movie, but because of watching it with other queer folks: I was naive about a lot of things, had a lot of unchecked privilege, and also thought I knew everything (terrible combo!). I had some incorrect assumptions (for instance I had no idea conversion camps were real, so I thought the entire thing was 100% comedy). There was one particular classmate who challenged each of my assumptions. The way that they approached it – kindly, but not about to let any of my BS slide – really set a high standard for me in how to take and receive feedback. I think about that moment and that classmate a lot- specifically the importance of confronting assumptions, of holding your peers accountable, and how integral that is as part of building a healthy community.

Similarly, watching L Word at LMNOP – I don’t think the show itself was that formative for me, but being able to watch a lesbian-focused show with other lesbian- and bi-identified peers was extremely helpful for me in normalizing my sexuality and learning how to be a better member of a queer community.

Do you have any particular memories associated with any LGBTQIA+ Reunion activities? Any words of advice for folks who are coming back for their Reunion this year?

Drag show performer on stage at Reunion 2025

Go to the drag show!! I am, of course, extremely biased (I’ve been on the committee for the reunion drag show for the last several years), but there’s a reason I keep coming back to it. I’ve seen firsthand the sheer amount of love, consideration and care (and massive logistics undertaking!) that goes into it by the staff (shoutout to Sarah Smith-Benanti!!), and by each committee member and performer.

I’ve seen alumni of all ages do their first ever drag show and CRUSH it. I’ve gotten to pass on what I know to new performers and have learned so much from mind-blowingly talented artists. I’ve laughed, cried, had backstage dildo fights, ridden into the sunset on inflatable pink ponies with my beloved peers, and last year’s show was so special on so many levels, I even got a tattoo of it.

Each show I’ve been a part of, even the virtual ones – I’ve received feedback from attendees about how much joy it brought them, or that they felt seen, and frequently that this was the first time they felt encouraged to try something like this for themselves.

Caito suspended by chains in a black leotard, holding a rainbow umbrella with a black background and red smoke

Last year, we (the committee and performers and staff) worked really hard to find a balance between holding space for the devastating news and hits that our community has faced, while also trying to light the fires of us all being in this fight together, and hopefully still bringing some much needed joy and celebration. I had attendees (including alumni, professors, staff, and plus-ones) coming up to me the whole weekend telling me how much certain performances meant to them, and the most repeated theme was that it made them feel like they belong here, and that we “can do this.”

I also had several cis/straight attendees/plus-ones who had never been to – and were hesitant about drag shows (and other queer focused events), tell me that this show changed their mind, and some of them even wanted to get involved. I think that really says how impactful Grinnell’s LGBTQIA+ community and staff are, and why having solid representation and LGBTQIA+ focused events is so important.

I would also recommend that alumni check out the drag clothing closet (and the career clothing closet). You can even bring clothes to Reunion to donate.

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  • Find a career connection
  • Discuss work issues related to your identity
  • Bounce ideas off alumni from across the generations
  • Grow your professional network

What You Can Do Right Now

Looking for ways to get involved with Rainbow Alumni and help Grinnell? Here are a few suggestions:

  • Forward this email to a friend! Know someone who should get this newsletter and join the Rainbow Alumni? Forward it to them to help us spread the word.
  • Volunteer! Have some fun and make new friends with Grinnellians from across the decades! Take the volunteer survey here. Committees looking for participants include Networking and Storytelling; Events; Communications and Outreach; and Fundraising.
  • Donate to support students! We are currently focused on fully funding the Rainbow Alumni Stonewall Resource Center Endowed Fund. Use the pull-down menu to select the fund of your choice.
  • Come to our next event. Reconnect to Grinnellians in your area or online.
  • Sign up to be a mentor: Register for the LGBTQIA+ MentorGrinnell.

 

Winter 2026 – ADA Newsletter

Alumni Disability Alliance (ADA) Recap of 2025:

On Tuesday, November 4 the ADA held its inaugural event, a holding space. With everything going on in the world, it’s more important than ever to have a space to simply be. This event was designed as a gathering where alumni and current students could slow down, connect and assess where we are as a community. This was a space to reconnect with old friends, meet new people in the community, find some shared joy, and a moment of peace.

The ADA is just beginning this journey and are thrilled for what’s ahead! We are working on our 2026 calendar which includes events such as MentorGrinnell, our open house at Reunion 2026, and another holding space event sometime this summer or fall. Keep your eyes on your inbox for more details!

We need your help:

Fluffy, brown squirrel with tufts of hair on ears on white background with a speech bubble that says 'we need your help'

Help shape the future of the ADA! We are looking for more members to participate in discussions and form committees such as programming and events, communications and outreach, storytelling and networking, student engagement, and much more! Come join the discussion on Wednesday, March 18 at 7 p.m. CST. Email
Sarah Smith-Benanti at smithben@grinnell.edu for the link to the zoom meeting.

MentorGrinnell:

Bring yourself to the (virtual) table with MentorGrinnell. This program is a joint effort between the Office of Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (ODEI) and the Office of Development and Alumni Relations (DAR). MentorGrinnell creates an affirming space for students and alumni to connect over shared identities and experiences. Through six structured sessions, participants focus on: empowerment, self-advocacy, and building a network that truly represents them. Register as a mentor to help students as they move from being a student into professional communities. Register for the Alumni Disability Alliance MentorGrinnell here!

By joining MentorGrinnell, students and alumni not only invest in their own development but also contribute to cultivating a more inclusive, connected Grinnell community across all generations.

Become an official member:

If you would like to continue to receive communications, event invitations, and swag, please sign up to become a member of the ADA using this form.

Sincerely,

The ADA Working Group

Fae Townsend ‘01 she/her, Johana Lozano ‘11 she/her, Emmy Potter ‘24 she/her, and Em Huss-Lederman ‘24.5 she/they

 

Winter 2026 Black Joy: The GBAN Newsletter

Letter from Co-Chairs

Greetings Black Grinnellians,

As we welcome Black History Month, we do so grounded in gratitude, memory, and joy. In a time and environment that too often seeks to minimize, distort, or erase Black stories, our gathering—across generations, geographies, and experiences—is itself an act of affirmation. Black history is not only something we commemorate; it is something we live, build, and pass forward through community.

This month, the Grinnell Black Alumni Network is proud to celebrate the contributions of Black Grinnellians—past, present, and future. One of GBAN’s core commitments is connection: connecting alumni to one another, honoring the many ways we show up, and creating space to recognize our own. What better way to do that than by spotlighting the brilliance, leadership, and service within our community?

We are especially grateful for the Black alumni who have devoted their time and talents to serving Grinnell—particularly those concluding their service on the Alumni Council and those recently recognized with alumni awards. Their commitment reflects the very best of what it means to give back: taking what was cultivated at Grinnell and using it to make an impact in classrooms, boardrooms, communities, and movements around the world. We thank you for your leadership, your care, and your continued investment in the College and in us.

Six people at Reunion with a Grinnell College backdrop, and black, silver, and red balloons
Langston Thomas ’20, Kari Bassett ’98, Ope Awe ’15, Noel Green ’94, Jeffrey Fields ’90, Aziza Mabrey-Wakefield ’25

Many of us were reminded of this shared legacy during Reunion Weekend. Seeing Black alumni gather in fellowship—laughing, reflecting, reconnecting—was a powerful reminder that community sustains us. As you flip through photos or spot a familiar face, we hope you feel the continuity: how much we’ve changed, and how deeply connected we remain.

As we look ahead, GBAN remains focused on three priorities: supporting current students, strengthening alumni connections across regions and generations, and creating opportunities for meaningful dialogue and collective action. Community building has always been at the heart of this work—and it will continue to guide where we go next.

In the coming weeks, we’ll begin sharing more about  Black philanthropy and collective giving—and how pooling our resources can help us claim power, build legacy, and directly support the initiatives that matter most to our community and to current students. We are grateful to those who already give and warmly invite partnership from those returning—or joining for the first time. Stay tuned for more information and an opportunity to connect directly with College leadership in March.

Thank you for being here. Thank you for showing up. Thank you for helping to carry this legacy forward—with joy, intention, and care.

In solidarity 

Opeyemi Awe ’15 and Noel Green ’94
Co-Chairs | Grinnell Black Alumni Network

Student Connections Committee Update

Grinnell Black Alumni Network’s (GBAN) Student Connections committee strives to facilitate relationships between Black alumni and Black students, empowering current students through their Grinnell journey. One way we do this is through mentorship.  Mentor Grinnell provides a forum for Black students and alumni to connect one on one and explore topics such as academics, belonging, and careers.  

In December, Kari Bassett ’98 and Langston Thomas ’20 hosted a conversation with Black students and alumni around mentoring. During this session, alumni and students shared their experiences through both formal and informal mentoring relationships, and the importance of having both a cheerleader and a soundboard while navigating life’s path. Last spring, GBAN  had 8 student alumni pairs who met over 6 sessions to explore topics related to belonging, identity, resilience, and goals. 

Kristina Hill (’27) shared her mentoring experience with Grinnell Magazine last fall:  “I wanted to meet with Black alumni specifically because as a Black woman, I wanted to see how (Kari) handled any academic or personal hardships and get any advice she could give me,” Hill says. “Having these affinity groups for students (like the Black Student Union) to connect with someone of a similar race, or cultural identity, or other identities, is important.” 

Sign up for MentorGrinnell with GBAN!

Alumni Spotlights

Thank you for your service on the Alumni Council, Ed Atkins ’66 and Ben Vaughn Jr. ’15.

Edmund E AtkinsHeadshot of Ed Atkins in a blue checked shirt, taken in front of a bookcase

Class Year: 1966
Current City/State: Washington, District of Columbia
Major: Political Science
Email Address: okced87@gmail.com

Why I Wanted to Serve on the Alumni Council:

Attending Grinnell, a seminal experience, formed me as an adult more than I realized when I graduated. My Grinnell education helped me manage a varied work life ranging from an urban planner in California to serving as a diplomat in South America, Africa and Europe. I wish to give back to the college, not only financially, but also with my time and effort. I’m interested in alumni student connections as well as diversity and inclusion initiatives. I enjoy mentoring students, especially those who are first generation.

A Quote I Like:

“You can learn something from everyone you meet”
―my Dad

A Little Bit About Me:

I retired from the State Department Senior Foreign Service in 2009. Since then, I’ve been active in my neighborhood in Washington DC. I served on the board of the Shepherd Park Citizens Association where I spearheaded efforts to deal with planning and development issues affecting our neighborhood. I’ve been married to the former Vera Clayton for over 50 years. We have one son, and two active grandchildren. I enjoy sports, the theater, and the visual arts.

Other Alumni Involvement: Black Reunion Planning Committee, Reunion Class Committee; mentored student

Benjamin Vaughn, Jr.Headshot of Ben Vaughn JR wearing a yellow t-shirt, taken outside in the sun

Class Year: 2015
Current City/State: Takoma Park, Maryland
Major: Gender, Women’s, and Sexuality Studies
Email Address: ben.vaughn05@gmail.com

Why I Wanted to Serve on the Alumni Council:

I have always been an ear to those who felt unheard or those who may have a hard time connecting. I participated in Athletics (yay Swimming/Diving and Track), Theater/Dance, QAA in Stonewall, KDIC, and Noteworthy acapella as a DC Posse Scholar (DC7) during my time as a student. I had a great time on campus but felt the students’ voice was often limited in power. I joined the Alumni Council in the hopes of bringing light to celebrations and trials facing current students and recent alumni to create a more cohesive bridge between campus and community.

A Quote I Like:

“The sun doesn’t give light to the moon, assuming the moon’s gonna owe it one.”
―Linkin Park

A Little Bit About Me:

I teach 2nd Grade in a Title I DC Public School. This was my first position after Grinnell as I accepted the call to join Teach for American DC Region as a Corps member, and I am still teaching at my placement school. I love teaching, and while it is challenging, it ultimately is exponentially as rewarding when you review all the progress at the end of the year. I am a certified indoor cycle instructor and fitness professional which is my current side hustle/passion. I love running classes in-person and cardio classes on Instagram.

Other Alumni Involvement: Reunion Class Committee; Class Fund Director

Congratulations to Alumni Award winners:

Headshot of Robert Quashi, smiling, wearing black framed glasses and a blue shirt, against a yellow backgroundRobert Quashie ’86

A bridge-builder and community-creator, Robert Quashie has an uncommon ability to explore potentially contentious topics in ways that bring people together. In 2000, Quashie established his own consulting practice often focusing on initiatives that served diverse populations, such as leading a strategic plan to rebrand the National Black MBA Association and supporting L’Oréal’s public relations outreach to the Black, Latine, and Asian American communities. Quashie later joined the American Dental Association, rising to chief operating officer in 2022. He also has served in numerous volunteer roles at the College, notably co-chairing Grinnell’s 2021 virtual Multicultural Reunion, nurturing relationships with alums and students during the depths of the pandemic.

Headshot of Althea Ricketts, smiling, wearing a white top and hoop earrings, against a teal background.Althea Ricketts ’86

Known for her positivity, compassion, intelligence, and action, Althea Ricketts is a leader in the audio/visual profession and in bringing Grinnellians together. She incorporates the values of sustainability and diversity, equity, and inclusion as the vice president of corporate initiatives at Shure – an audio products manufacturer. Ricketts has traveled the world as a respected ambassador in her field. She has volunteered for many industry, DEI, and sustainability boards and has mentored countless new professionals. Ricketts also served as co-chair for Grinnell’s 2023 Multicultural Reunion and helped engineer the launch of the Grinnell Black Alumni Network (GBAN).

Headshot of Christyne Lawson, smiling, wearing a white blouse, gold necklace and earrings, against a gray backgroundChristyne Lawson ’87

With little fanfare and quiet humility, Christyne Lawson uses her healing powers in one of the most underserved parts of the country. Lawson left private practice in 2015 to become a family physician at the Detroit Community Health Connection. Her ability to relate to her patients provided invaluable insights into the cultural beliefs and fears they were experiencing regarding their medical care – viewpoints often rooted in past trauma or mistreatment. She began transforming the patient experience, building holistic practices and taking time to learn about her patients’ lives. As a result, patients now often regularly return and refer friends. Lawson also volunteers to teach medical students at Wayne State University.

Headshot of Langston Thomas, smiling, wearing a gray turtleneck, against a gray backgroundLangston Thomas ’20

Motivated by the belief that equity must guide institutional design and public policy, Langston Thomas is confronting complex problems to strengthen vulnerable communities. Currently pursuing his Ph.D. in urban studies at Georgia State University, his research is developing a strategic blueprint for community empowerment that seeks to understand systemic inequalities in democratic nations. Turning ideas into action, Thomas founded Democratic Systems, Inc., an innovative nonprofit focused on targeting the roots of systemic inequalities and empowering sustainable solutions. Thomas also has taken on a leadership role in the Grinnell Black Alumni Network (GBAN) serving as co-chair of the Student Engagement Committee.

Student Spotlight 

Headshot of Priya Boyce, smiling, wearing a black blazer over a white shirt and black framed glasses, against a neutral backgroundName: Priya Boyce
Class Year: 2028
Hometown: Queens, New York
First Year Tutorial: African American Literary Ties to Russia with
Major (Intended): Political Science & Psychology with a Policy Studies Concentration 

Priya Boyce came into the Grinnell Black Alumni fold (GBAN) her first year at Grinnell, when she volunteered for the Black Alumni Weekend (BAW) Planning Committee. “I had never been to Chicago. I got to meet so many Black alumni and students.  I felt like I really belonged.”  Planning weekend yielded another unexpected outcome: a cool campus job.  “I didn’t know that you could work in the alumni office until Aziza (Mabrey-Wakefield ’25) told me.”  This year, Priya works as an Alumni Affinity Group Coordinator.  In her role, Priya helps keep GBAN connected and supported by acting as a liaison between alumni and campus offices, as well as planning and running events. “A bit part of my role is helping with outreach and engagement efforts, especially increasing participation and representation, while working closely with campus partners to make sure alumni programming is intentional and aligned with community needs.” 

In addition to her work with Black alumni, Priya has enjoyed several transformational experiences at Grinnell.  Priya really enjoyed her first year tutorial, African American Literary Ties to Russia with Professor Raquel Greene, where she learned more about how Black people have historically been treated in Europe, as well as the Black Panther Party’s connections to the Soviet Union (Russia).  Another transformational course was learning more about primary sources and oral histories in Rise and Fall of New World Slavery with Professor Paul (Al) Lacson.  Earlier this year, Priya was selected to participate in Second Year Convocation is a program that prepares students to navigate professional settings, including resume review, interview prep, and dining etiquette.  

Priya’s story is a reminder that finding community often starts with simply saying “yes”—to a committee, a conversation, or a new experience you didn’t even know was possible. From finding community through GBAN and BAW, to discovering meaningful coursework and professional development opportunities, Priya has leaned into her Grinnell experience with curiosity and courage. We’re proud to celebrate Priya and the energy she brings to our alumni-student community and the Grinnell community at large.

Stay tuned for our next Student Spotlight!

Upcoming Events 

February 26, 7 – 8pm CST | Holding Space: Black Joy Month | Join Here 

March 4, 7 – 8pm CST | Book Talk with Dr. Beronda Montgomery and Dr. Thabiti Willis | Register Here
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Winter 2025 Rainbow Connection Newsletter

Veritas et Arcus Iris

A Note from Rainbow Alumni Leadership:

During this busy holiday time, I am reminded of “family.” We see movies, television shows, and songs longing to satisfy the need to be home by Christmas. We see advertisements with long dining room tables filled with copious amounts of home cooked food surrounded by grandparents, aunts and uncles and children by the dozen. But what about those of us that don’t have that Hollywood perfect home? For me, I have my chosen family. We aren’t bound together by blood, but by choice. Every day we wake up and choose to be with those we care about and support. I remember when I first started to find my chosen family – how it was a daunting task – were these people going to accept and love me for who I am? Would they choose me? It was a leap of faith, so to speak, but it was worth it. I found people that continue to show up for me, even in times of hardship.

Merriam-Webster defines family as a “basic unit in society traditionally consisting of two parents rearing their children; [as well as] a group of people united by certain convictions or a common affiliation.” In other words, a family can be as simple as a community brought together by a myriad of commonalities. Sometimes it’s an interest such as a movie franchise or sports team. Other times, it’s simply knowing that we’ve both been on Mac Field that can spark that Hallmark family feeling.

If you’re still looking to build your chosen family, your community, please consider joining us and taking on a more engaged role with the Grinnell Rainbow Alumni. From in-person kikis to virtual meetups, from engaging and mentoring current students to connecting with alumni from a previous generation, the Grinnell Rainbow Alumni gives multiple opportunities to find others and start building your own community. If you’re unsure where to start, please feel free to reach out to myself or one of our steering committee members and we can fold you into our little Grinnell Rainbow Alumni family.

In solidarity,

Carly Jerome ’11 (carlyjerome@gmail.com)
Chair, Grinnell Rainbow Alumni

On behalf of the entire Steering Committee


More Than a Server: Grinnell’s Rainbow Discord Builds Digital Community with Real-World Roots.

Formed in early 2023, the Grinnell Rainbow Alumni Discord was created to bring together the LGBTQIA+ community and allies. Over the past two and a half years this community has evolved. Topics for discussion include current events and home and garden, where members show off everything from home renovations to gardens. Additionally, one of the most popular channels is, by no surprise, pets! Grinnellians from all over are keen to share their furry friends (and even some feathery or scaly ones). Yet, one specific, universally beloved phenomenon stands out: cats in boxes. The Grinnell Rainbow Alumni Discord serves as a powerful model for how digital communities can sustain and deepen real-world connections, providing a vital, evolving space for identity, discourse, and, of course, a healthy dose of shared pet adoration. Come join the online community by clicking this link!


Join the Reunion Drag Subcommittee:

We need you to help us plan the Reunion 2026 Drag Show! Don’t worry if you’ve never planned a show or even been to a drag show before, because we have a great plan in place to create a fabulous show. All we need is a little help from you to add to the fun.

Committee members will:

  1. Help us recruit performers, we have sample outreach emails
  2. Determine a theme for the show
  3. Host a virtual happy hour to recruit performers
  4. Host a virtual happy hour for performers to discuss the run of show and determine finale song
  5. Create promotional material to share on social media
  6. Assist the night of the show by handing out programs, candy, condoms, and collecting tips

Time commitment will be 1 Zoom meeting per month from January through May. You do not need to attend Reunion to be on this committee. Email Sarah Smith-Benanti, smithben@grinnell.edu, if you are interested or have questions.


MentorGrinnell:

MentorGrinnell, a program co-sponsored by the Grinnell College Center for Career, Life and Service and the Office of Development and Alumni Relations is dedicated to fostering representation & belonging by creating an affirming and authentic space where students and alumni can connect with others who share their lived experiences and identities. Through six structured sessions, the program facilitates shared growth & support, allowing participants to learn from one another’s stories, strategies, and successes. MentorGrinnell is an empowerment and advocacy initiative dedicated to building meaningful connections and strong, supportive professional networks. It provides clear pathways into professional communities that extend far beyond simple career advice. At the core, sessions can focus on self-advocacy and leadership, enabling participants to navigate professional environments with their whole identity affirmed and actively contribute to building inclusive communities.

As an alumnus, you have the opportunity to register as both a mentor or a mentee! MentorGrinnell welcomes participation at every stage of your professional journey. We strongly encourage you to register as a mentor. Your unique life experiences and professional insights are incredibly valuable to the current students. Register for the LGBTQIA+ MentorGrinnell here


GivingTuesday Recap:

We are delighted to announce the overwhelming success of the Grinnell Rainbow Alumni’s inaugural GivingTuesday campaign for our newest fund, the Rainbow Alumni Stonewall Center Fund.

Thanks to the incredible generosity of our alumni community, we have successfully launched this vital fund, raising a total of $16,935!

Your Impact at a Glance: The campaign utilized a matching challenge from the Rainbow Alumni Leadership, which we are proud to report was fully unlocked by noon!

  • Donor Contributions: A total of 16 donors contributed $9,435.
  • Leadership Match: Because the donor contributions surpassed the $7,500 goal, the Rainbow Alumni Leadership provided the full $7,500 match.

Thank you so much to every donor for your dedication and generosity on GivingTuesday. Your support secures a programmatic fund for the Grinnell College Resource Center and great opportunities for its students!


Mark Your Calendars! GRA Road Show:

Are you Interested in connecting with and learning more about the Grinnell Rainbow Alumni?

The GRA is thrilled to announce that our leadership team is hosting a special Road Show event on the evening of Thursday, January 22, 2026!

At this session it will be a chance to meet your GRA leadership, learn more about the programs offered, and ask any questions you might have! Registration is coming soon. Watch your inbox for the official registration link—we’ll send it out as soon as it’s ready.

We look forward to seeing you all there!


Your Part of Grinnellian History: Share Your SRC Story!

This year, the Grinnell College Stonewall Resource Center SRC celebrates its 40th anniversary. For four decades the SRC has been a place for memories, milestones, and community. As we mark its 40th anniversary, we are working to compile a collection of stories, from both before and after the creation of the SRC, that showcase the LGBTQIA+ life on campus.

Interested in sharing your memories of the SRC? Fill out this quick survey (it is only three questions, we promise and two of them are optional) or share your thoughts in the comments!


Meet a Member: Paul Hermann, class of 1987
Paul Hermann, class of 1987, and family in front of a sunny waterfront view
From left: my husband, Ed Swanson, Liza Swanson, Paul Herman (the tall bald one), Katherine Swanson

Can you tell us a bit about yourself and your time at Grinnell College? What was your year and major?

I transferred to Grinnell as a sophomore. I arrived during a housing crunch, so I was put into Russian House as a brand-new student, but it turned out well because I made a lot of good friends in the house. I graduated in 1987 as a religious studies major.

How do you identify now? Were you out during your time at Grinnell?

I identify as a gay man. I say “queer” when I’m talking to young and hip people, like my kids. But “gay man” is still how I describe myself most commonly. I arrived at Grinnell hoping to come out as soon as I could (I had wanted to come out as a first-year student at UC San Diego, but it wasn’t a safe environment at the time). I started hanging out with a group of queer students in the first weeks of school and everyone just sort of assumed I was gay, so I never felt like I really had to come out to them and it was an easy process. For most of my three years, I was very out.

When I explain to friends now that I found it difficult to come out at UC San Diego in 1983 and easy to come out at Grinnell College in 1984, they are often surprised. People assume that San Diego was more liberal and Iowa was more conservative. That’s certainly true today. So I always have to remind them that San Diego in general was very conservative in the 1980s. UCSD did not feel like a particularly safe place for queer people to be open in 1983. Iowa, at the time, was actually much more liberal than it is today, at least in its partisan-political alignment. And Grinnell, of course, already had a long history as a socially progressive school by the time I arrived in 1984. When I got to Grinnell, it just felt easy and normal to be myself and to be open about my identity. I’ll always be grateful to the Grinnell community and culture for providing me that safe space at a time when I really needed it.

How would you describe your professional life so far? What do you do for a living?

I worked in local politics, HIV-related policy work, and then went to graduate school for a very long time. I started in religion and then switched to American history. In the last years of graduate school, my husband and I had twin daughters. So, once I finished, I became mostly a stay-at-home parent and volunteer. Now that they are grown and out of the house, I’m a volunteer with various non-profit organizations (and Grinnell College).

Have you volunteered with any LGBTQIA+ groups since graduation?

I moved to San Francisco right after graduation, in 1987, specifically to get involved in the AIDS epidemic and San Francisco’s response. I volunteered and worked for a variety of HIV-prevention groups, but mostly ended up involved politically working directly for local elected officials who were fighting for LGBTQIA+ rights. I worked for one of the leaders of the early fight to recognize domestic partnership in California, which laid the groundwork for the later recognition of marriage equality. I also worked on HIV-related issues and gay-rights issues in South Africa for a year.

What was the overall atmosphere like at Grinnell while you were there? Were you involved in any campus groups at the time?

Grinnell was a very easy place to be gay, in the sense that I felt accepted and wasn’t ever worried about backlash or judgment. I felt free to express myself openly. I never experienced overt bigotry.

I was involved with the Grinnell College Gay Community (GCGC), but not extensively. I remember going to meetings, which were held at the time in Steiner Hall. I was a theater kid and was a member of the improv club. I briefly had a late-night radio show at the radio station (with the real talent, Tracey Collins), which my three friends listened to somewhat regularly.

You graduated just after the Stonewall Resource Center was started. Do you remember what you thought at the time? Did you ever use the space?

Honestly, my memories about this issue in particular are pretty vague. However, I do remember going with a small group of people to meet with President George Drake to advocate for the designation of a specific space in the Forum for the Stonewall Resource Center. I don’t remember why or how I got involved in that, but it must have been through the GCGC. The reason I know the memory is pretty solid is that I can picture President Drake’s office, and I never was there otherwise. Also, I knew him personally after that and later met up with him when he was a Peace Corps volunteer in Lesotho and I was living in South Africa.

Once the Stonewall Resource Center opened, I just remember being proud that we had fought for it.

How visible were LGBTQ+ students and employees on campus when you were an undergraduate? What do you remember about that?

LGBTQ+ students were visible, at least to me. It’s probably more accurate (as a historian) to say that lesbian women and gay men were fairly visible. I didn’t know of any students, staff, or faculty who were trans. And bi students were suspected, by most people at least, of being gay and just not ready to say it. (That’s a huge change from the 1980s to today. My daughters just graduated from colleges where a large proportion of their fellow students identified as bi. And my daughters both identify as queer; no one used that term in the mid-eighties because it remained a slur and hadn’t yet been reclaimed as a term of pride.)

I can’t remember being aware of any out gay faculty or staff. In retrospect, our art history professor was extremely flamboyant (he lived in downtown Grinnell and had pink flamingos in his windows), but I still didn’t assume at the time that he was gay.

Are there any books or movies that were especially important for your personal coming out journey?

I find that question tricky, for some reason, mostly because so many things were important to my journey that it’s hard to put a finger on what mattered most. In my senior year, GCGC brought the documentary The Times of Harvey Milk to campus.That was a huge influence on me and made me want to move to San Francisco. A few years after graduation, I was working for Harry Britt, who replaced Harvey Milk on the San Francisco Board of Supervisors after Milk’s assassination and was close friends with Dick Pabich, Harvey Milk’s former legislative aide. I also became friends with the filmmakers who won the Oscar for that film. So I’ve thought often about seeing that movie for the first time at the Forum. [ed: The film was produced by Richard Schmiechen, class of 1969; he and Robert Epstein, the director, were the first openly gay men to accept an Academy Award.]

There were so few films in the 1980s that dealt openly with gay themes, the few I saw made a big impression: My Beautiful Laundrette, Another Country, Making Love, Personal Best, Desert Hearts; they all shaped my identity (and internalized shame) to some degree.

You’ve been working a lot on planning the 2026 Reunion. Anything you’re particularly excited about? What have you gotten out of the experience so far?

It’s been a joy to work on the 2026 Reunion, mostly because the planning weekend brought me back to campus for the first time since 1987 and introduced me to a lot of fantastic classmates I hadn’t known. I’m delighted now every time I see these people on Zoom. It makes me so excited about the upcoming reunion. It turns out that I feel an affinity and a sense of trust and solidarity with other Grinnellians, even if they are people I never knew while I was in college.

I had a very small group of friends while I was at Grinnell. Most of them lived off campus in my last two years, and I also spent a semester away at Grinnell-in-London. For whatever reason, that small group of people hasn’t been involved with the college as alumni. So I have never attended a reunion, because my friends weren’t going to be there. But now I’ve finally realized that I’m just as happy to see old classmates that I never knew personally and to get to know them as the people we are today. I hope I can remain involved for a long time to come.


News from Campus and Beyond

The Scarlet & Black
From silence to pride: Grinnell LGBTQ+ residents share stories on love, loss and identity
A community panel event titled From Silence to Pride, where several longtime LGBTQ+ residents of Grinnell,IA shared their personal journeys regarding love, identity, and acceptance.The stories shared both highlighted the struggles of coming out and the joy of finding community and authentic selfhood.

QPOC envisions reclaimed future: performers immerse crowd in a world beyond generative AI
The bi-annual student drag show hosted by Queer People of Color (QPOC) was held on November 14. The theme blended Dr. Makeba Lavan’s tutorial class Afrofuturisms, Janelle Monáe’s “Dirty Computer,” and urban dystopian 1927 film “Metropolis” provide hope amidst current anxieties. Overall the show tackled themes surrounding capitalism and artificial intelligence (AI). All funds raised by the QPOC performance will be donated to the Iowa Trans Mutual Aid Fund (TMAF).

Hannah Alumni house opens after three year renovation process
Welcome home! The newly renovated Alumni House isn’t just a building; it’s a pillar of the Grinnellian community, curated with love and decades of memorabilia. It stands as the quintessential ‘place to return, a place to belong,’ offering alumni a warm, history-rich hub to reconnect and continue building their lifelong community.

News From Iowa
There wasn’t a lot of LGBTQIA+ news coming out of Iowa in the last month or two, but there was an incident in which a suburban Des Moines high school postponed a play in which two women characters make out. The play was to be staged a week later than originally planned. It is not clear what modifications to the production were made when it was staged a week later.

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What You Can Do Right Now
Looking for ways to get involved with Rainbow Alumni and help Grinnell? Here are a few suggestions:

    • Forward this email to a friend! Know someone who should get this newsletter and join the Rainbow Alumni? Forward it to them to help us spread the word.
    • Volunteer! Have some fun and make new friends with Grinnellians from across the decades! Take the volunteer survey here. Committees looking for participants include Networking and Storytelling; Events; Communications and Outreach; and Fundraising.
    • Donate to support students! We are currently focused on fully funding the Rainbow Alumni Stonewall Resource Center Endowed Fund. Use the pull-down menu to select the fund of your choice.
    • Come to our next event. Reconnect to Grinnellians in your area or online.

Fall 2025 Grinnell Rainbow Connections

Veritas et Arcus Iris

A Note from Rainbow Alumni Leadership

Did you know the Grinnell Rainbow Alumni actually has written bylaws, modeled on the Alumni Council? We decided to do this for a couple reasons, but the biggest effect is that our co-chairs rotate out of the position, in alternating years. This helps prevent burnout and encourages development of new ideas. With the end of the school year, we thank Phoebe Lostroh ’94 for her hard work and commitment to getting the Rainbow Alumni off the ground. She’s not going anywhere, though, and will still be volunteering with us.

In her place, we welcome Carly Jerome ’11 as the new co-chair! Carly has been working on the Programming and Events Committee, and helped ensure the Reunion 2025 Drag Show was such a success. She lives in L.A., and is looking for fellow Angelenos to coordinate next year’s Ren-Gay-Vous!

In solidarity,

Carly Jerome ‘11 (carlyjerome@gmail.com)
Rick Rose ‘88 (rick.rose@yahoo.com)
Co-Chairs, Grinnell Rainbow Alumni

On behalf of the entire Steering Committee


What We Did for Pride: Ren-Gay-Vous Pride Events for 2025

Across the Midwest and coast-to-coast, the second annual Ren-Gay-Vous Pride Events were a huge success! Throughout June and July 2025, Grinnellians reconnected with old friends, made new ones, and celebrated the progress of our community.

Meetups were held in nine cities: Chicago, Denver, Des Moines, Detroit, Los Angeles, Salt Lake City, Springfield (Ohio), the Twin Cities, and Washington D.C. In 2026 we are switching to hosting Ren-Gay-Vous gatherings in October to coincide with Grinnell College’s campus pride month! Please contact Sarah Smith-Benanti at smithben@grinnell.edu if you are interested in hosting (or co-hosting) or would like to help with events year-round.

Below is a collage of photos from this year’s Ren-Gay-Vous! We look forward to continuing this tradition next year.

Group photos of the Washington, Denver, Twin Cities, Des Moines, and Los Angeles Ren-Gay-Vous attendees.

National Coming Out Day: Stories about the SRC

Thank you to Caito Scherr ’09 and Javon Garcia ’14 for hosting the National Coming Out Day virtual storytelling event. This year’s theme was Stories about the SRC in honor of the Stonewall Resource Center at Grinnell College celebrating its 40th anniversary in 2026. Alumni from 1967-2024 attended and shared stories about the SRC, and how community took shape without the SRC. Several alumni had stories about visiting campus as prospective students and being inspired to attend by the mere presence of the SRC. It was a beautiful evening of connection.

Wondering how the SRC came into being, and how it’s changed over the years? Check out this timeline from the Grinnell College Multicultural Alumni Archive.

Black and white photo of what is now called the Stonewall Resource Center with a group of people and a large protest sign that says We can no longer live with fear + ignorance Gay Resource Center a group of Grinnell College students in the Stonewall Resource Center


Development of Drag Subcommittee for Events

The Programming and Events Committee is excited to announce the formation of a Drag Subcommittee! This new group will be dedicated to planning and hosting drag-related events throughout the year, all of which will build excitement for the (now annual!) Reunion Drag Show. Please email Sarah, smithben@grinnell.edu, if you are interested in joining this committee.


Meet a Member: Jay Dick ‘93

Co-class fund director; alumni council member

Jay Dick '93 Grinnell College

Can you tell a bit about yourself and your time at Grinnell College? What was your year and major?
I am a 1993 Political Science graduate. For the last 32 years, I have mostly lived in the DC Metro Area now calling Fairfax, VA, home. But I grew up just down the road from Grinnell (exit 182) in Colfax (exit 155) Iowa. While Grinnell was only 30 miles away, it was in all actuality a world apart from my small hometown.

I have been with my husband, Chuck Salvetti for 27 years (married 17). He often comes to Grinnell events with me and has even been to Reunion. I currently oversee the government affairs department at Americans for the Arts, the nation’s largest arts advocacy and research non-profit, where I’ve been for 20 years. I work with arts organizations from across the nation to promote the creative sector and its economic and cultural benefits to society.

How would you describe your identity on the LGBTQIA+ spectrum during your time at Grinnell? Did it change later on?
Growing up in rural Iowa in the 1980s, there were no real gay role models. Only when I got to Grinnell did I realize what those feelings were that I was experiencing. To me, prior to Grinnell, gay meant “happy” or “joyous.” There was no other thought about being anything but a straight person. When my ignorance was exposed, I quickly did realize my true sexuality but I didn’t act on it. At that time, to be out would have likely had a negative effect on a political career, something I was working toward. So, I stayed in the closet.

After graduation, I had an internship for then Iowa Senator Tom Harkin in his DC office. Later, I switched to the office of Sen. Frank Lautenberg of New Jersey. I was still in the closet at this time, even to friends who were out. I am sure they knew, but they respected my privacy. In Sen. Lautenberg’s office, I befriended Tom, the office manager. I would later realize that he was gay and partnered. I was tired of leading a double life, and knowing I could safely be who I truly was, I started to come out. But, I remember some of Tom’s wise words: “You get to choose who you come out to. If you don’t want to, don’t. It is your choice.” To this day, as a gay man, society assumes you are straight and I still have the choice to come out to people on a daily basis. Jay Dick '93 with his husband Chuck, and friend and mentor Jim.

Most of the time I will gently correct someone who asks about my wife, etc., but it is always my choice. I am lucky to live in a progressive area and work for an industry that is always welcoming to LGBTQIA+ individuals. I am out at home and at work, but my sexual orientation isn’t my dominant feature. Tom and his husband Jim, who are in their 80s, are dear friends who I cherish to this day.

What was the overall atmosphere like at Grinnell while you were there? Were you involved in any campus organizations or support networks at the time?
Because I was closeted, I never visited the Stonewall Resource Center, dated, etc. So I don’t have any thoughts on gay life while at Grinnell. I did find the campus liberating and full of energy and activity. I loved learning about new things and new cultures. My first year, on James 3rd, there were two international students on my floor and I don’t know how many in my dorm. I am still friends with many of the individuals I met those first few weeks at Grinnell and we still get together whenever possible. Grinnell gave me lifelong friends and memories.

Can you share any memorable LGBTQIA+-related events or experiences during your time at Grinnell? How did your time at Grinnell shape your personal growth or identity?
As I was closeted, I don’t have any LGBTQIA+ experiences, but Grinnell certainly shaped my personal growth. Looking back, I do regret not coming out, but hindsight is 20/20. Grinnell gave me confidence and a strong academic foundation, which has shaped my life. Grinnell gave me empathy and understanding of others. It taught me to be woke: to care for and about others.

How have your experiences at Grinnell influenced your life and career after graduation?
Having Grinnell on my resume was the key factor in getting work in the U.S. Senate. As someone who grew up in a small, rural area, Grinnell was the most transformational institution in my life, which allowed me to choose my own direction. Given that, I hold the college in great esteem, which is why I give financially to the college (my husband and I have established a fund to allow students to intern at nonprofit organization), why I volunteer, and why I will always make time to talk with current students or alumni needing advice or help.

Have you been involved in any LGBTQIA+ organizations since leaving Grinnell?
I am a former board member of Equality Fairfax, our local LGBTQIA+ advocacy organization in Virginia. I donate to HRC and other LGBTQIA+ organizations. Fun note: I just marched in the World Pride Parade this June here in DC.

What advice would you give to recent LGBTQIA+ Grinnell graduates based on your experiences?
Don’t let others demand that you come out. You will do so when you are ready. While the world is a much more accepting place for LGBTQIA+ folks, it can still be scary or unsafe. If you can, find an older queer mentor. We have a great lived experience and generally are willing to help young people traverse some of life’s curveballs. That said, a message to the young gays: Know your gay history! Your queer elders fought hard; don’t take things for granted and if you do not know your history, you don’t know how you got to the present, which will cloud your future.

How do you hope your experiences and contributions as a Rainbow Alum will continue to shape the future of Grinnell?
Bringing people together in a community is a powerful force. As a Rainbow Alum, I want others to know that there are safe spaces for them to truly let down their guard and be vulnerable, as these experiences or interactions will help them grow and become stronger.


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